Wednesday, October 26, 2005
women?
It was around 10:30 at night when I quit playing a game on my PC and started walking aimlessly in my room. What is one to do with women.? Unpredictable, spontaneous, erratic. thats what they are, and trying to understand them(or atleast one of them) was me. Not a very promising endeavor I admitted to myself. Countless others have tried before me in vain, and what was i hoping to do? Yes that was it!! Hope , maybe not exactly, not hope, a more practical and more cruel form of hope, expectation. You dont get nearly as hurt by hope as by expectation. Expectation is closer to reality, something almost sure, quite near to you, almost taken for granted. While hope is farther away, a remote possibility you wish to come true. And for the same reason, expectations and more dangerous than anything. Expecting and failing is almost like losing something you already had. Basic Rule, Do not expect anything.! the sure formula to avoid aimless brooding walks at night. But what could these women (or the one in question) be thinking, what was she feeling.? Difficult to understand. I guess I should'nt try to. Just open yourselves up to them, but dont try to understand them. Love them , unconditionally, but never ever try to understand them. thats the sure formula for loving a woman. But I guess I already knew that.
Friday, October 21, 2005
Wednesday, October 19, 2005
The very first post
Hello World.
After doing that a thousand times for a thousand reasons, in a thousand ways, finally one for others to see ! Created this blog after getting bored in a training room. This is my diary where i jot down my ramblings about java tech , philosophy, and reasonably things that i like and people around me.
Which brings me...I have an inclination to think that personal blogs are a bit selfish in expressing one's own views and opinions. while that is not necessarily a bad thing, I believe that it takes the focus from freedom of expression to freedom of self publicity and motivation. Which again is not bad. For some or most i should say publicity or visibility within a comminity is a source of motivation. You tend to feel important, which in turn makes you feel better. While in the conventional sense this is a fairly tough task, blogging gives the "feel good for free" proposition. hmmmm... I should say this is working..!! :-)
After doing that a thousand times for a thousand reasons, in a thousand ways, finally one for others to see ! Created this blog after getting bored in a training room. This is my diary where i jot down my ramblings about java tech , philosophy, and reasonably things that i like and people around me.
Which brings me...I have an inclination to think that personal blogs are a bit selfish in expressing one's own views and opinions. while that is not necessarily a bad thing, I believe that it takes the focus from freedom of expression to freedom of self publicity and motivation. Which again is not bad. For some or most i should say publicity or visibility within a comminity is a source of motivation. You tend to feel important, which in turn makes you feel better. While in the conventional sense this is a fairly tough task, blogging gives the "feel good for free" proposition. hmmmm... I should say this is working..!! :-)
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